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Perhaps
your student already has job, internship or
volunteer plans in place for the summer. If
so, you can breathe a sigh of relief. Yet, if
he's still trying to figure out what to do this
summer, you can help:
- Ask
Her What She's Interested In. What does it
mean to "have a worthwhile summer"
in your student's eyes? Ask her! Seeing what's
important to her will help you help her reach
her goals, instead of imposing your own.
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Direct Him to Career Services. The good folks
in this office can help him look for summer
jobs, internships and more. They won't get
the job for him-that's up to him! Yet, they'll
provide support and resources throughout the
process.
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Put Out Some Feelers. It's not your job to
"fix" the summer plans issue for
your student. Yet, if he asks and will be
with you for the summer, put out some feelers
in town. Let community members know that your
talented, hard-working kid will be around
and looking for work!
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Talk Realistically About Money. It's easy
to have grand dreams about the summer yet,
it's also important to be realistic about
what needs to be done. Have an intentional
conversation with your student about money
and what needs to happen in order to cover
next year's college costs. If she knows that
she's responsible for spending money and books
and other expenses, that will help her gauge
her work schedule while also seeing if she
can fit in the volunteer gig she'd like to
try. Providing complete information so she
can make adult choices is a great step in
fostering self-responsibility.
Now
that it's April, your student may need a nudge
to get some summer plans in place. Offer support
and ideas and encouragement. The rest is up
to him!
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Talk
About "Summer Curriculums"
Since your student is in the academic
mindset, talking about a "summer
curriculum" might make a lot of sense
to her. This just means being intentional
about the things she'd like to learn and
experience this summer. Maybe she's been
talking about how she misses reading "real"
books because she always has reading to
do for class. This can go on her curriculum.
Or maybe she's hoping to learn how to
kayak or knit or ride a horse
put
it on the curriculum!
And
make it a partnership by suggesting that
both of you (or the whole family!) write
out your summer curriculums. Then share
them so you can support one another in
pursuit of these summer goals!
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