Getting Along with Instructors


College students talking to a professor

Students at Utah State University have a variety of resources available to help them succeed in college. Yet, one of the more obvious resources available to students is often overlooked - professors and instructors. The following information is meant to help you work with your professors and instructors to ensure your success.

What Do My Professors Expect From Me?

Think about people you’ve met. Some had qualities and characteristics that helped you want to get to know them better. Others had characteristics that resulted in your feeling relieved to see them go.

It is no different with professors. They may meet and interact with up to 600 or more students each year! Your behavior will determine if their reaction to you is positive or negative.

Do's and Don'ts of talking to your Professor 
Don’t Do
..ask questions that show you haven't done the assigned reading or that you haven't been listening to the lecture. ..come prepared to class and/or to the instructor's office during office hours. If you have missed class, get the lecture notes from another student before you ask questions.
..ask general questions such as "Could you explain Chapter 3?" ..take the trouble to read the chapter and ask specific questions about concepts that are giving you trouble.
..ask personal questions during class, such as "When can I take my makeup exam?" ..ask personal questions of the instructor during office hours.
..ask during class for any handouts that you missed be- cause of an absence. ..find out from the classmates what handouts were distributed, ask for their copies, and then photocopy them for yourself or download them from the course website.
..expect the instructor to accept your excuses for turning in late assignments if you do so too often. .. turn in assignments on time. Instructors are not likely to accept your excuses more than once or twice. They've heard them all before.
..offend your instructor. Falling asleep or reading during a lecture, consistently coming late to or leaving early from class, and talking to a classmate are insulting and offensive to an instructor. .. act respectfully and courteously. Come to class on time; leave when the class is over. If you are too tired to stay awake, don't attend class. If you have to study for another class/test, don't come to class. If you are discourteous in class, instructors will be much less likely to go out of their way to help you. Put yourself in their position, and imagine what it is like to stand in front of a group of 100-200 students who are sleeping, talking, or otherwise uninvolved in the class.

How Do I Talk To My Professor?

Many students find they are anxious and tongue tied when needing to talk with a professor. Here are some suggestions about how to talk with your instructor.

  1. Schedule an appointment to see your instructor during his/her office hours. Remember: your instructor also uses his/her office time to grade papers, prepare classes, and conduct research. “Dropping in” usually results in the student feeling frustrated or irritated because the professor already has appointments scheduled.
  2. Ask your professor how he/she prefers to be addressed. Not all instructors are Ph.D.’s (i.e., “Dr.”), and thus may want to be addressed by their first names. But, check it out to be sure.
  3. Be on time for office appointments. If you do show up on time and your professor isn’t there, wait five or ten minutes (you’d wait longer in a physician’s office), then leave a note. If you miss an appointment, apologize in person and reschedule.

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